eHarmony is different, we don’t ask you to search through a sea of unknown singles, we match you based on compatibility. When we’ve found someone who fits, we’ll send you their profile.
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eHarmony’s Core Traits and Vital Attributes paint a powerful portrait of who you are at the deepest level and form the basis for how our patented Compatibility Matching System© finds matches that are truly right for you.
How do you think about the world around you? Are you motivated by an insatiable curiosity about the world and events around you? Are you constantly looking for intellectual challenges? Do you find humor to be your favorite coping strategy when dealing with the world? Although Feelings and Social Style can impact on this trait, your Cognitive Mode is an important separate aspect of who you are, and defines a lot of the ways in which you interact with people.
What elements define your dominant Cognitive Mode?
How do you relate to other people? Do you crave company, or prefer to be alone? Are you more comfortable leading, or do you prefer to go along with the group? Basic feelings such as these comprise an important aspect of who you are, and who you will be most compatible with.
What defines your
How do you feel about yourself and about the world? While specific day-to-day and moment-to-moment events play a major role in our emotions, deep seated patterns of emotion are also a fundamental part of who you are and how people perceive you.
What is part of your Emotional Temperament?
How do you relate physically with the world? How do you relate physically with yourself? Are you energetic, athletic and constantly in motion? Or are you more comfortable and happy walking than running? Feelings and thoughts which revolve around your physical life form an important aspect of who you are.
What deals with your Physicality?
Values and Beliefs are at the center of most of our life experiences. How we feel about spirituality, religion, family and even politics for an enormous part of how we think about the world, and who we are going to be most comfortable sharing our lives with.
What are included in your Values and Beliefs?
The amount of effort and skill that you devote to making a relationship work are key elements of who you are, and what type of person you are most likely to succeed with in a relationship.
What measures your Relationships Skills?
All of your life experiences combine to affect who you are and how you relate to the world.
What are considered your Key Experiences?
Since 2000, thousands of people around the world have formed compatible, long-term relationships through eHarmony. Many people in Australia have already met their match—here are some of their inspiring stories.
Graham & Marsha
Northamptonshire - Married Sept 25, 2005
"The moment I met Graham I knew that I would spend the rest of my life with him! It was simply a match made in heaven!!! Our first date was a lovely French dinner in London. I remember getting back home and just praying. I knew that Graham was my husband... when I was around him my soul just felt so happy and I felt like I had arrived home!”
Anna & Andrew
Portsmouth - Married Oct 25, 2008
“The compatibility between us is something else and we both get so much joy from being together. What a great way to be certain that this person is what you need and that you are what they need!”
Elica & Kenneth
Basingstoke - Married May 30, 2006
"Thank you for giving us the opportunity to find each other which led to our wedding on 30 May 2006. We knew the love of our lives was out there somewhere in the world, and luckily, we finally caught up to each other."