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eHarmony is different, we don’t ask you to search through a sea of unknown singles, we match you based on compatibility. When we’ve found someone who fits, we’ll send you their profile.

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Matching based on compatibility

eHarmony’s Core Traits and Vital Attributes paint a powerful portrait of who you are at the deepest level and form the basis for how our patented Compatibility Matching System© finds matches that are truly right for you.

Social Style
and Beliefs

Cognitive Mode

How do you think about the world around you? Are you motivated by an insatiable curiosity about the world and events around you? Are you constantly looking for intellectual challenges? Do you find humor to be your favorite coping strategy when dealing with the world? Although Feelings and Social Style can impact on this trait, your Cognitive Mode is an important separate aspect of who you are, and defines a lot of the ways in which you interact with people.

What elements define your dominant Cognitive Mode?

  • Humour
  • Curiosity
  • Intellect
  • Artistic Passion

Couples who met on eHarmony

Since 2000, thousands of people around the world have formed compatible, long-term relationships through eHarmony. Many people in Australia have already met their match—here are some of their inspiring stories.

Graham & Marsha

Anna & Andrew

Elica & Kenneth

Graham & Marsha
Northamptonshire - Married Sept 25, 2005

"The moment I met Graham I knew that I would spend the rest of my life with him! It was simply a match made in heaven!!! Our first date was a lovely French dinner in London. I remember getting back home and just praying. I knew that Graham was my husband... when I was around him my soul just felt so happy and I felt like I had arrived home!”

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