Comments on: Four bad dating habits fixed

By: sueashmore

sueashmore — Thu, 30 Dec 2010 13:14:55 +0000

think positive and change the way you cary your bodies,the way you walk, learn to love yourselves, you will intantly become more attractive and who knows you may meet someone in tescos or at a bus stop not just on this site! happy new year and good luck!

By: Claire

Claire — Wed, 29 Dec 2010 15:58:33 +0000

I haven’t committed any of these mistakes either, but haven’t dated for quite a while! lol

By: jo

jo — Tue, 28 Dec 2010 13:32:07 +0000

you cant choose how your family background works out . its the person you turn out to be that is important ,,

By: Alana

Alana — Tue, 28 Dec 2010 10:46:20 +0000

Noted the careful reverse away at point 4. from the statement that people with divorced parent’s may not be stable partners. I do take all of the advice in the spirit in which it is intended but would err on the side of caution when deciding on a partner based on their parent’s marital status. I know from experience that this has little to no bearing on one’s values, family or otherwise.

By: Amanda

Amanda — Sun, 18 Apr 2010 08:42:18 +0000

If it’s not working.. maybe you guys need to look at what you’re saying about yourselves or how it’s coming across?

as the saying goes.. you get out of life what you put in…!

By: kat

kat — Thu, 08 Apr 2010 22:51:21 +0000

im starting to wonder if e harmony is going to work for me, i know its different for everyone but it sounds like as far as communicating with people that it can be few and far between. i’ll just see how it goes but im finding it a little frustrating that a lot of the profiles that im joined with dont fill in their profiles properly or show a lzy attitude to the infortaion they give, one was jst full of question marks and dots?

By: Wendy Harman

Wendy Harman — Thu, 18 Mar 2010 10:44:35 +0000

Your luck Mike at least your getting a reply. I had one thinking we were getting on all right for a month and as the same with you not ready for a relationship or dating so if they are not then don’t get on these sites until you are ready. Was leaving but decided to give it another go..advice is good just wish people will say hi..Wendy

By: Mike

Mike — Wed, 17 Mar 2010 17:37:42 +0000

So, you’re a realtionship counsellor and you can’t get replies either? That gives me some hope. So far, I’m getting around 1 reply for every 20 attempts. Of those, most get as far as a few messages then we discover we’ve not got anything to talk about. The one person I did think I was really getting on with got cold feet over Xmas and decided she: “wasn’t ready for a relationship”, or however the excuse is worded on here.

BTW, Jane did you not see the smiley at the bottom of Bob’s message?

Mike

By: Christine

Christine — Mon, 15 Mar 2010 16:00:02 +0000

Hi just read your article. I’m a relationship counsellor and the
advice you give is sound. Problem is I’ve been here for a while and can’t even get a reply so no fear of me making these rookie errors lol

By: Claire

Claire — Sun, 14 Mar 2010 22:12:28 +0000

Yes I’m taking note of this too as I’ve made all of these mistakes before.

By: Steve

Steve — Sun, 14 Mar 2010 21:08:42 +0000

Well I haven’t committed any of these bad dating habits but still no luck, so where am I going wrong – ha ha!

By: Gary

Gary — Sun, 14 Mar 2010 19:31:58 +0000

Yes good sound common sense advice and a really good yard stick to look back on. Top marks and well said.

By: David

David — Sun, 14 Mar 2010 16:54:39 +0000

Very good advice and well worth taking note of. I have committed all four of these ‘bad habits’ in previous relationships. Now I am aware of this,hopefully I won’t make the same mistakes in the future.

By: Jayne

Jayne — Sun, 14 Mar 2010 15:37:56 +0000

No it doesn’t Bob!! My you are touchy! It’s just a generalisation, they could have just as easily said brown hair, musician. Geez.

By: bob

bob — Sun, 14 Mar 2010 15:33:10 +0000

Great – implies those of us who are blonde and sporty are bad – thanks!