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Setting realistic and inspiring challenges in 2012
by eHarmony
No matter what size or shape you are one of the most attractive qualities a person can possess is an enthusiasm for life. We can all end up a bit jaded through overwork and family commitments so its important to set yourself personal challenges to keep you motivated and enthusiastic.How to break a bad habit
by eHarmony
Bad habits often make you feel unhealthy, overweight and not in control of your life. When it comes to dating it is often our bad habits that damage our confidence and stop us from really believing that we are desirable. Make 2012 the year you tackle your bad habits.How to have a PMA going into 2012
by eHarmony
The thing that often separates happy, successful people from others is not simply a matter of chance, it is their Positive Mental Attitude.Make New Year’s resolutions – and stick to them
by eHarmony
Its that time again, when we resolve to do all those things we failed to do last year typically along the lines of lose weight, give up smoking, drink less, take more exercise, spend less and find Mr or Mrs Right.5 ways to avoid the post-Christmas slump
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The build up to Christmas seems to start earlier every year. The laws of physics state that everything that goes up must come down and this is just as true of emotions as anything else.Singles New Year Survival Guide
by eHarmony
With its emphasis on partying and the elusive midnight snog New Year can be more challenging than Christmas if you are single. Here are some tips to help you through.How to make your future love life different from your past
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If you always do what you’ve always done, you will always get what you’ve always got. Many people get stuck making the same mistakes over and again in their lives. Here we look at some ways to break the cycle.How to become less self-conscious
by eHarmony
If you are struggling to get yourself out on dates because of self-consciousness here are some tips to help reduce the anxiety.Why love can make you more creative
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There are many advantages to being in love but perhaps the least known is that it can make you more creative.Relationships: do you know how to ask for what you want?
by eHarmony
You are unlikely to get what you want if you don’t know how to ask for it. Here we look at some of the most common areas of difficulty when it comes to being assertive in relationships.