Comments on: How to be your most attractive self in 2010 http://www.eharmony.co.uk/relationship-advice/start-with-you/2009/12/how-to-be-your-most-attractive-self-in-2010 Love and relationship advice from eHarmony UK online dating site Tue, 07 Feb 2012 19:34:27 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Angie http://www.eharmony.co.uk/relationship-advice/start-with-you/2009/12/how-to-be-your-most-attractive-self-in-2010/comment-page-1#comment-34311 Angie Sun, 11 Sep 2011 14:25:39 +0000 http://www.eharmony.co.uk/relationship-advice/?p=1184#comment-34311 There's an awful lot of bad spelling going on here! There’s an awful lot of bad spelling going on here!

]]> By: Purry http://www.eharmony.co.uk/relationship-advice/start-with-you/2009/12/how-to-be-your-most-attractive-self-in-2010/comment-page-1#comment-20607 Purry Sun, 13 Feb 2011 12:14:25 +0000 http://www.eharmony.co.uk/relationship-advice/?p=1184#comment-20607 Right on Danny!! Right on Danny!!

]]> By: rose http://www.eharmony.co.uk/relationship-advice/start-with-you/2009/12/how-to-be-your-most-attractive-self-in-2010/comment-page-1#comment-19312 rose Fri, 28 Jan 2011 23:37:36 +0000 http://www.eharmony.co.uk/relationship-advice/?p=1184#comment-19312 its sure good to look nice,attractive and beautiful but this is not permanent inner beauty is and radiates outwards the genuity no one can change,will speak for itself.be youself.confidence let your light shine it will be obvious and noticable for those who have eyes for beauty wear a nice mile all the time. its sure good to look nice,attractive and beautiful but this is not permanent
inner beauty is and radiates outwards the genuity no one can change,will speak for itself.be youself.confidence let your light shine it will be obvious and noticable for those who have eyes for beauty wear a nice mile all the time.

]]> By: Sharon http://www.eharmony.co.uk/relationship-advice/start-with-you/2009/12/how-to-be-your-most-attractive-self-in-2010/comment-page-1#comment-8828 Sharon Fri, 20 Aug 2010 17:39:32 +0000 http://www.eharmony.co.uk/relationship-advice/?p=1184#comment-8828 Come on guys, if you was selling your car would you really just put x year old car for sale one careful owner. No you would list all the plus points you would write about what a great car it is, how well looked after it's been. It's mileage, and condition etc. So selling yourself is no different, list your good points let us girls know what you like to do, but please don't put sports, explain. Do you just watch or do/did you part take. The question in the profile are hard to answer I know, but give it some thought you can always go back and add to them, and you should go back and edit your profile. The amount I've seen were they just put don't know or question mark. There are sample answers look at them. See what your matches have put is that relevent to you, if it is then use some of it. Your profile is all you've got if it's not showing you in a good light then you are not going to get a responses. No-ones going to bother if you look boaring. Come on guys, if you was selling your car would you really just put x year old car for sale one careful owner. No you would list all the plus points you would write about what a great car it is, how well looked after it’s been. It’s mileage, and condition etc. So selling yourself is no different, list your good points let us girls know what you like to do, but please don’t put sports, explain. Do you just watch or do/did you part take. The question in the profile are hard to answer I know, but give it some thought you can always go back and add to them, and you should go back and edit your profile. The amount I’ve seen were they just put don’t know or question mark. There are sample answers look at them. See what your matches have put is that relevent to you, if it is then use some of it. Your profile is all you’ve got if it’s not showing you in a good light then you are not going to get a responses. No-ones going to bother if you look boaring.

]]> By: Tony Pragmatic http://www.eharmony.co.uk/relationship-advice/start-with-you/2009/12/how-to-be-your-most-attractive-self-in-2010/comment-page-1#comment-2466 Tony Pragmatic Wed, 24 Mar 2010 01:00:21 +0000 http://www.eharmony.co.uk/relationship-advice/?p=1184#comment-2466 That's a bit harsh Tom or am I mis-reading you. Yes these sites do have successes albeit rare I'd wager. My 'match up@ in in its early stages and who knows were it's going ? And as for 'continual failure' there's a ready made production line of "fish to be shot in a barrel" without this idea going wrong. It's called marriage or at least one in three and rising ! Can't remember who said it but, 'A cynic knows the price of everything and the value of nothing' If you don't think it's gonna work for you why bother ? That’s a bit harsh Tom or am I mis-reading you. Yes these sites do have successes albeit rare I’d wager. My ‘match up@ in in its early stages and who knows were it’s going ? And as for ‘continual failure’ there’s a ready made production line of “fish to be shot in a barrel” without this idea going wrong. It’s called marriage or at least one in three and rising ! Can’t remember who said it but, ‘A cynic knows the price of everything and the value of nothing’
If you don’t think it’s gonna work for you why bother ?

]]> By: Tom http://www.eharmony.co.uk/relationship-advice/start-with-you/2009/12/how-to-be-your-most-attractive-self-in-2010/comment-page-1#comment-2086 Tom Wed, 03 Mar 2010 22:32:58 +0000 http://www.eharmony.co.uk/relationship-advice/?p=1184#comment-2086 Hey! Be passionate! Be yourself! Change yourself so you can sell yourself! Your inner beauty is going to shine out like a beacon! Follow this detailed list of dos and don'ts to help you be exactly your natural self. Dating sites are the internet self-help book. Keep telling people how it's going to be great, but the business depends on continual failure. Hey! Be passionate! Be yourself! Change yourself so you can sell yourself! Your inner beauty is going to shine out like a beacon! Follow this detailed list of dos and don’ts to help you be exactly your natural self.

Dating sites are the internet self-help book. Keep telling people how it’s going to be great, but the business depends on continual failure.

]]> By: Tony Pragmatic http://www.eharmony.co.uk/relationship-advice/start-with-you/2009/12/how-to-be-your-most-attractive-self-in-2010/comment-page-1#comment-1717 Tony Pragmatic Thu, 18 Feb 2010 00:02:01 +0000 http://www.eharmony.co.uk/relationship-advice/?p=1184#comment-1717 For what difference it's gonna make.... Remember this is an American company (site)expanding in the UK using a tried and tested (US) formula (see TV ad). All the advice centres on selling yourself. In my humble opinion, sales people are born not manufactured. I'd wager the vast majority of people using this sort of site are NOT natural salespeople. However you can train people,(to sell themselves) but they wont appear natural unless they get loads of practice. I agree with Danny, 'au natural' please. Beware someone could appear too good to be REAL. As THE WHO said, "I wont get fooled again". Happy hunting. For what difference it’s gonna make….
Remember this is an American company (site)expanding in the UK using a tried and tested (US) formula (see TV ad). All the advice centres on selling yourself. In my humble opinion, sales people are born not manufactured. I’d wager the vast majority of people using this sort of site are NOT natural salespeople. However you can train people,(to sell themselves) but they wont appear natural unless they get loads of practice. I agree with Danny, ‘au natural’ please. Beware someone could appear too good to be REAL. As THE WHO said, “I wont get fooled again”. Happy hunting.

]]> By: Helen B http://www.eharmony.co.uk/relationship-advice/start-with-you/2009/12/how-to-be-your-most-attractive-self-in-2010/comment-page-1#comment-1691 Helen B Wed, 17 Feb 2010 22:46:05 +0000 http://www.eharmony.co.uk/relationship-advice/?p=1184#comment-1691 ...........it would be nice to be with someone who doesn't berate you 6 months in for being the bubbly, friendly, organised person they originally loved you for in the first place. Wish they came with 'genuine' stamped on their forehead..!!! ………..it would be nice to be with someone who doesn’t berate you 6 months in for being the bubbly, friendly, organised person they originally loved you for in the first place. Wish they came with ‘genuine’ stamped on their forehead..!!!

]]> By: Danny http://www.eharmony.co.uk/relationship-advice/start-with-you/2009/12/how-to-be-your-most-attractive-self-in-2010/comment-page-1#comment-944 Danny Thu, 14 Jan 2010 14:44:33 +0000 http://www.eharmony.co.uk/relationship-advice/?p=1184#comment-944 To be honest I feel kind of uneasy about some of this article. One thing I cannot abide is over-confidence, this is often misplaced. I'd rather be aware of my own limitations than be deluded by some sense of self-importance. And obviously I'm passionate about the people and things I love; when this doesn't come across I think it's more of a reflection of my interaction with that person than how I actually feel about myself. The same conversation between different individuals would be different (obviously). I'm sure there are pessimistic, socially awkward folk out there (actually, I know there are) and they deserve the opportunity for happiness as much as anyone else. Overcoming shyness is paramount, and I was uncomfortable with this articles hey-just-change-yourself approach. When people connect they just do, both of them! If you want to be loved for who you are then be yourself. Don't change unless you want to. Good luck to all who read this. To be honest I feel kind of uneasy about some of this article. One thing I cannot abide is over-confidence, this is often misplaced. I’d rather be aware of my own limitations than be deluded by some sense of self-importance. And obviously I’m passionate about the people and things I love; when this doesn’t come across I think it’s more of a reflection of my interaction with that person than how I actually feel about myself. The same conversation between different individuals would be different (obviously). I’m sure there are pessimistic, socially awkward folk out there (actually, I know there are) and they deserve the opportunity for happiness as much as anyone else. Overcoming shyness is paramount, and I was uncomfortable with this articles hey-just-change-yourself approach. When people connect they just do, both of them! If you want to be loved for who you are then be yourself. Don’t change unless you want to. Good luck to all who read this.

]]> By: Effie Mc Glumpher http://www.eharmony.co.uk/relationship-advice/start-with-you/2009/12/how-to-be-your-most-attractive-self-in-2010/comment-page-1#comment-909 Effie Mc Glumpher Mon, 11 Jan 2010 23:01:26 +0000 http://www.eharmony.co.uk/relationship-advice/?p=1184#comment-909 Like your comment Roz about how at least you can make some new friends. This is the first time I've ever tried online dating and I'm enjoying the experience, though I did find it a bit daunting at first. At least I'm open to new ideas and will try my best to be the forever optimist. Good luck in your search........ Like your comment Roz about how at least you can make some new friends. This is the first time I’ve ever tried online dating and I’m enjoying the experience, though I did find it a bit daunting at first. At least I’m open to new ideas and will try my best to be the forever optimist. Good luck in your search……..

]]> By: Roz http://www.eharmony.co.uk/relationship-advice/start-with-you/2009/12/how-to-be-your-most-attractive-self-in-2010/comment-page-1#comment-871 Roz Sun, 10 Jan 2010 09:22:10 +0000 http://www.eharmony.co.uk/relationship-advice/?p=1184#comment-871 Let's face it there is no magic formula to finding the right person.I try to be the best person I can but I don't beat anyone up when it goes wrong. The way I look at it is you can make some great friends. Even if my night in shining armour never whisks me off. I would have had the best life possible! and not wasted a minuet. Ever optomistic...... Let’s face it there is no magic formula to finding the right person.I try to be the best person I can but I don’t beat anyone up when it goes wrong. The way I look at it is you can make some great friends.
Even if my night in shining armour never whisks me off. I would have had the best life possible! and not wasted a minuet. Ever optomistic……

]]> By: adam http://www.eharmony.co.uk/relationship-advice/start-with-you/2009/12/how-to-be-your-most-attractive-self-in-2010/comment-page-1#comment-719 adam Fri, 01 Jan 2010 23:14:34 +0000 http://www.eharmony.co.uk/relationship-advice/?p=1184#comment-719 Sorry, But all of the se things are obvious. If it were easy and natural for every one to exude confidence then there would not be a problem and this sight would not exist. The same goes for being passionate. Surpose you meet the girl or guy of your dreams but you are finding it really hard to get your head round what they are talking about or what they do, or surpose your cat has just died that morning so youare feeling like the world has just ended. Evey thing writen above seems REALLY obvious to me and if it were as simple as flicking a switch then we'd all be doing it and every body would be in a happy fulfilling relationship. C'mon eHarmony, try a bit harder next time and don't get our hopes up with drible like this! Sorry, But all of the se things are obvious. If it were easy and natural for every one to exude confidence then there would not be a problem and this sight would not exist. The same goes for being passionate. Surpose you meet the girl or guy of your dreams but you are finding it really hard to get your head round what they are talking about or what they do, or surpose your cat has just died that morning so youare feeling like the world has just ended.

Evey thing writen above seems REALLY obvious to me and if it were as simple as flicking a switch then we’d all be doing it and every body would be in a happy fulfilling relationship. C’mon eHarmony, try a bit harder next time and don’t get our hopes up with drible like this!

]]> By: steve http://www.eharmony.co.uk/relationship-advice/start-with-you/2009/12/how-to-be-your-most-attractive-self-in-2010/comment-page-1#comment-704 steve Fri, 01 Jan 2010 10:46:01 +0000 http://www.eharmony.co.uk/relationship-advice/?p=1184#comment-704 The last point is hilarious. "Magically transform yourself into an optimist and get chicks!" The other points are good because they provide a hint as to how to effect the change, e.g. "think about what makes you confident". But "change your outlook" is not a helpfult thing to say to a glass-half-empty person :-) The last point is hilarious. “Magically transform yourself into an optimist and get chicks!”

The other points are good because they provide a hint as to how to effect the change, e.g. “think about what makes you confident”. But “change your outlook” is not a helpfult thing to say to a glass-half-empty person :-)

]]> By: Diane Corriette http://www.eharmony.co.uk/relationship-advice/start-with-you/2009/12/how-to-be-your-most-attractive-self-in-2010/comment-page-1#comment-682 Diane Corriette Thu, 31 Dec 2009 15:16:13 +0000 http://www.eharmony.co.uk/relationship-advice/?p=1184#comment-682 There is nothing more beautiful than someone who loves who they are from the inside - it shines through and is naturally attractive. That is what I love about eharmony - your focus on more than just good looks and what a person has! There is nothing more beautiful than someone who loves who they are from the inside – it shines through and is naturally attractive.

That is what I love about eharmony – your focus on more than just good looks and what a person has!

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