Find love by starting with the most important element – you. From advice on finding love when you’re busy to regaining dating confidence after a tough relationship, we’re here to help.
Latest articles in Start with you
Why it can be good to worry
by Fran Creffield
That gnawing, tight feeling in your stomach or the incessant chattering of an over active head which seems intent on foreseeing all the things that could possibly go wrong can occasionally be beneficial – here’s how.Are you a commitment phobe?
by Fran Creffield
Do you struggle to get past the first couple of months with someone? Does the mention of exclusivity, meeting their family or moving in together send shivers down your spine? If so it could be that you are a commitment phobe – read on to find out more.How to stop worrying what other people think
by Fran Creffield
We are all a little self conscious from time to time but for some people worry about what other people will think about them can actually stop them from living life fully.Telling the difference between love and lust
by eHarmony
Your heart is racing and your knees are shaking and you want to be with your new love every moment of every day. It could be love, but it may be lust, here we look at the difference between the two.Do you fall in love too easily?
by eHarmony
Do you hear wedding bells with every first date? Do you feel heartbroken and rejected whenever someone doesn’t want to see you again? If so, it could be that you are falling in love too easily.5 tactics for keeping your promises and pledges to yourself
by eHarmony
Eat better, watch less TV, date more – we all have a constant list of things we ‘should’ be doing but what can we do to make and keep the promises we make to ourselves?Discovering your hidden strengths
by eHarmony
So you know you are hardworking, funny and honest but just like on a car we can have blind spots when it comes to our own personalities. Read on to discover how to reveal your hidden strengths.Putting your envy to good use
by eHarmony
Envy - to regard anything with grudging and longing eyes. It is hard to see how such an uncomfortable emotion can have a good use but here are a few ways you can turn it around.Writing a new life script
by eHarmony
Is your life like an omnibus of Eastenders? Do you desperately want your future to be different from your past? If so read on to find out how you can write yourself a brand new script.Emotional maturity – what is it?
by eHarmony
Aside from the usual criteria - age, height, career, location etc. maybe another ‘must have’ on a dating profile could be ‘emotional maturity’ – here we look at what it is and how important it is for a healthy relationship to develop.
Follow us on