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How to dump your emotional baggage
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Do you feel weighed down by your past? Are you finding it difficult to form a new relationship because you never had closure on an old one? Did things happen to you that you just can’t move on from? Here are some useful techniques to help you let go and create a future that is different from your past.Are you too picky?
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Ever wondered if your single status might be down to your pickiness? Or just stumped as to why you can't seem to find someone to settle down with? The answer might be right here in this article.4 things you can learn from your ex
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Life is all about learning. We learn from the moment we’re born, right through to the day we die. And yes, we even learn from our exes. Not convinced? Here are 4 things we know you’ve learnt from your past romances.How to spot toxic friends
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You’ve probably broken up with a few partners in your time, but have you ever broken up with a friend? Here’s how to spot a toxic friend you might want to give the elbow to.3 ways to get over your ex
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We talk about past relationships a lot at eHarmony Advice, mainly because they often greatly affect our future happiness. Shaking off the shadow of an ex, staying friends with an ex, or deciding not to stay friends with an ex are all important topics we’ve covered. But here's the toughest one of all - getting over your ex.What women – and men – really want
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We've delved into the top 10 Must Haves and Can't Stands of our male and female eHarmony members, to find out what the sexes really want. You might be surprised!How to get a great night’s sleep
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Sleep is precious, and when you’re not sleeping well it can impact every aspect of your life. If your sleep patterns are affecting your work, relationships or even your dating life, check out our top tips.Are you too obsessed with your ‘type’?
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Many people think they have a ‘type’ of person they like to date, but sometimes this obsession with dating a type can stop people from finding love. Are you falling into the same trap?How ‘busyness’ is taking over our lives
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How many times have you said ‘No, I’m just too busy...’ and then wished there were more hours in the day? Here’s our guide to slowing down, and finding time to find love.9 Christmas party cliches (and how not to be one)
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You're bound to find yourself at a festive do this year, whether it's with colleagues, friends or family. But doesn't it seem like the same cliches just crop up year after year at these things? Here's our top 9 - and how you can avoid becoming one of them!
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