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5 tips for getting past the icebreaker stage on eHarmony
by eHarmony
Getting past the icebreaker stage can be nerve-wracking. Not knowing what to say or the fear of rejection can hold you back, but here are a few suggestions to help you communicate with ease.Profile Feedback: Edition #14
by eHarmony
This month take a look at one of our male user's profiles. He'd love to know what you think - what could be added, what would you change and what would you leave out? Post a comment and let him know!How to know if a match is “relationship ready” from their profile
by Fran Creffield
Does the fact that someone has posted a profile online mean that they’re actually ready for a relationship?Profile Feedback: Edition #13
by eHarmony
This month's profile comes courtesy of one of our male users - he'd love to know what you think about his profile, what could be added, or even what's best left out.5 most common profile mistakes
by Fran Creffield
Writing a dating profile is never easy, especially for us Brits, who are often guilty of putting ourselves down rather than bigging ourselves up.5 hot topics of conversation for your online messages
by eHarmony
Stuck for words when it comes to online messaging or tired of asking your matches the same questions? Try some of the hot topics below to liven up your emails.Profile Feedback: Edition #12
by eHarmony
This month's profile comes courtesy of one of our male users - he'd love to know what you think about his profile, what could be added, or even what's best left out.4 tips for getting the conversation started online
by Fran Creffield
When you meet a match online do you know how to get the conversation started or are you at a loss as to how to begin?Gallery: The 8 biggest online communication no-nos
by eHarmony
It’s good to talk, said a well known telecoms firm back in the 90s. And that applies when you’re online dating too – just make sure you don’t commit these communication no-nosBiography: Fran Creffield
by eHarmony
We'd love to introduce you to Fran Creffield, lifestyle writer. Here find out more about what makes Fran perfect for eHarmony Advice.
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