How to find love



Communicate with your
compatible matches

While we can measure your compatibility with singles using the key areas which are critical for relationship success, only you will know if there's chemistry. To see if there's a spark, you need to communicate with your matches. To ease the stress of writing a direct message straight away, we've developed a Guided Communication process, which helps you to think about what you want from your relationship and find out more from your match. If you prefer, you can try our eHarmony Mail option and go straight to communicating freely with your matches.

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