How to find Mr Right

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There comes a point in all our lives when we decide to go out there and find Mr Right – as if we were looking for a new handbag. But, before you set out on your mission to find love, take a little time to evaluate yourself and become someone Mr Right will want to date.

Look at your past

Before going into a new relationship, it’s always helpful to evaluate your previous relationships. By working out what worked – and what didn’t – in the past, you can be more confident about what you want from your next relationship. If you don’t follow this process you may well fall back into bad habits.

Love yourself

We know – this part sounds a bit cheesy, but think about it. If all your worth comes from outside sources, such as a romantic partner, this puts extreme pressure on that person. By having your own sense of self-worth you will be instantly a more attractive prospect.  This doesn’t mean you have to sit around talking about how great you are, but rather focus on doing the things in life that make you feel good – this will boost your feeling of self-worth no end.

Work out what you’re looking for

By knowing what you want in a person, you will find yourself making better choices when dating. Make a list of the qualities your partner should definitely have, and the things that are an absolute deal breaker for you (such as smoking). If your personal beliefs and values are in line with your date’s, then you are on the right path to a successful relationship. If you have to compromise, seriously ask yourself if they’re the right person for you.

Get out there

The man of your dreams is probably not just going to turn up on your doorstep, you’ll have to get out there and actively seek him. Once you’re in a good position to love yourself, and you know what you’re looking for in a relationship, then it’s time to get out there and find love. Take chances like never before, such as agreeing to a blind date or joining an internet dating site.

Good luck!

 


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