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Over 40 dating

eharmony can help you meet like-minded singles over 40 from across the UK

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Over 40s dating in the UK

There’s no reason why age should stop you finding love and happiness, which is why eharmony is committed to helping and men and women over 40 find love. Unlike other free over 40s dating sites and apps, we don’t think that age is the most important factor in dating; we specialise in helping people find meaningful relationships with like-minded singles at every stage of life. Thanks for our unique Relationship Questionnaire; we can take the time to really get to know you, helping us introduce you to over 40s who share more than just your age bracket. We pair people based on several key dimensions of compatibility, so you’ll be one-step closer to finding someone who you’ll really click with.

Why eharmony isn’t like other over 40s dating sites

At eharmony, we know that finding like-minded singles over 40 can be a challenge, which is why we make sure we really get to know you and find out what you’re looking for in a relationship. When you’re dating over 40, you know what you do and don’t want in a partner, so we make sure we pair you with people who prioritise those things too. Humour, ambition, sociability and communication style are just a few of the many dimensions that we take into consideration. That way, you can be sure that you’ll be introduced to over 40s singles who share the same values as you when it counts the most.

And if you’re short of time, or feeling frustrated by other free overs 40s dating websites, eharmony won’t make you spend hours scrolling through profiles of potential partners. Instead, we’ll send you a carefully selected batch of compatible profiles every day, saving you time and preserving your privacy – it’s just one of the many reasons why eharmony stands out from other overs 40s dating agencies and apps.

There’s more than enough choice too; we’ve welcomed thousands of daters over 40 who are looking for love online with eharmony – they’re based all over the UK and the list is growing every day! Whether you’re divorced, have children, or have been single for a while, we’ll help you find someone who’s the best possible fit for you and your life.



The eharmony experience for over 40s

So, you’ve completed your Relationship Questionnaire, updated your profile and are keen to start meeting your matches – what next? Well, eharmony makes it easy for you to connect with over 40s that catch your eye. Our Icebreakers are a great way to get things started; you can initiate a flirtation by sending a smile or dive straight in to the secure eharmony Mail system. It’s completely private and you won’t have to share any personal details that you’re not comfortable with. Just start messaging, safe in the knowledge that everything is between just you and them.

Are you new to online dating?

Whether you’ve never tried online dating before or have been offline for a while, be sure to check out our Dating Advice site. It’s home to a wealth of dating advice, hints and tips for making the most of your profile and making your eharmony experience a success. You can even check out our customer reviews to see what our members are saying about us before signing-up!

So, what are you waiting for? Sign up to eharmony today and you can start meeting great over 40 singles who are truly suited to you.

For more over 40s dating advice, check out these links:

The realities of dating over 40

Dating: Why older, definitely means wiser

7 single clichés – and why they’re rubbish

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