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    1-5 of 53 reviews

  • We're getting married!!

    I thought dating sites were cheesy and thought no way would I find a boyfriend on a site! But eharmony was a great experience down to earth people with similar interests to me in one place no chat up lines just like minded people looking for the friendship hoping for love. I never thought it would lead 3 years down the line marrying the man I met on line. We hit it off immediately and it made it easier we could start conversations with things with had in common. The site is easy to use and you only have to chat to people you want too, with sometimes just nice conversation. Highly recommended brilliant experience with theach most amazing outcome.

  • Wonderful people

    2 years ago, my friend Rosie met her husband on Eharmony, I decided to give it a go. I was a member for around 1 year, I used Eharmony as a tool to help me search through men in London. It really REALLY helped me understand what I wanted and help me find the man I was interested in meeting. I have met an amazing man now, and we have been together 6 months. We are very very happy and are talking about marriage / kids. I can not express how GOOD Eharmony is!! If you use it properly, and with the right attitude... it can change your life forever!!

  • Happily Married

    eharmony is the best thing my twin has forced me in to! I signed up in 2012, met Zoë in the April and it really was love at first sight for both of us! We met at Vinopolis and soon realised that we had both been at the same singles night a few months earlier in Clapham but had only eyed each other up from afar and stuck chatting to our friends!!! In December 2013 I proposed and we married in September 2014. eharmony is to thank for all of the happiness we have shared over the last few years and we are sure there is lots more in store.

  • Success!

    Having been divorced for 6 years, I decided to give online dating a go. I chose eHaromony as it'd been recommended by a friend who'd found their husband on it! I wasn't expecting that, but I did like the idea of male company and having some fun. The site delivered that and more, much more! Last October, I married 'Tony, Lawyer, Liverpool' whose profile photo featuring a big smile and wonderful climbing roses had attracted me from first glance. Life is great, we are very compatible, love eather other to bits, we couldn't ask for more!

  • Marriage and a Baby!!

    I joined eharmony about 5 years ago. I loved the fact that it was a bit more geared towards finding a perfect personality match and not just about the way you look in a picture. Beccie was the first girl I met up with for a date and it all flowed from there. We got on so well and it was a matter of days before we met up again. Now 5 years on we have a mortgage, we got married in Italy and we are 20 weeks pregnant with our first child. To think that if I hadn't joined eharmony my life might be very different right now!

    6-10 of 53 reviews

  • Met my husband via eharmony!

    This match was just perfect. The guided communication meant that I could find out the answers from the questions asked to see if their answers were what I wanted to hear! From here I managed to whittle down potential suitors to my now husband. We have so many things in common but also some nice differences to balance each other out. Without eharmony we wouldn't have met and I am so happy I signed up. I refer all my single friends to eharmony as it really does work!

  • It all started with an Ek!

    I had signed up to 3 different dating websites over 5 months and was starting to feel a little hopeless, then I joined E Harmony and I'm thankful every day that I did. Firstly I loved the questions and ice breakers, other sites didn't have this feature and it was an easy and comfortable way to make the first move and get the communication going. I remember seeing my Martin for the first time, his cute picture, his dad jokes, he instantly put a smile on my face and so I sent 5 questions, he replied and we quickly went through the other rounds then it came to writing the first message, I was so nervous, so much so all my first message really said was "Ek, I've never had to write the first message before, pressure!!!" To which he replied and as they say the rest is history. We are now expecting our first child and couldn't be happier.

  • eharmony works! Try it.

    I think joining eharmony was the best thing I ever did! Within 3 months I had met the most wonderful man. I had a strange feeling from the moment he and I made contact that this was something special! He proposed on our 1 year anniversary, and we married 6 months later! I am so happy to have found Mr Right and I urge anyone looking for a meaningful relationship to try eharmony. It worked for us and we couldn't be happier! Thank you eharmony!

  • I found my perfect match!

    My sister made me sign up to eharmony in June 2014. I was very sceptical at 1st as I had never done online dating before. I found the website and app very easy to use. I found my perfect match just after a few weeks, we have very similar interests and like the same kinds of films etc. We are now engaged and have our wedding booked for 2017. Thank you eharmony as I would have never met my partner or be so happy with my life now!

  • Amazed

    I had never been the sort to go on blind dates or anything like that. I signed up to eharmony because I wasn't meeting anyone new or interesting in my social and work circles, which were also nowhere near where I lived. After months of studying eharmony & not really giving it a chance (I chatted to a few people but never once met up), I spotted a profile and send him a quick message. We sent messages to and fro for a few days and he asked to meet up. This was normally the part when I would chicken out but this time, for some reason, I didn't. Nearly three years ago, that first meeting was supposed to last for 2 hours and ended up at 13 hours. And in April this year, a month after our 3 year anniversary, I'll be marrying that 13 hour date! Two of the best decisions I ever made: signing up to eharmony and plucking up the courage to meet the man it found for me.

    11-15 of 53 reviews

  • Found Happiness

    I was a member of eharmony for two years and found the experience both enjoyable and exciting. The matches that I received were, in the main, all within the profile that I requested and I was very pleased with the way that eharmony worked from initial "Smile" through to secure email. I went on a number of dates and, after about a year I found a lovely lady and we are now planning our future together.

  • Great way to start off communications!

    I got offered 3 months for £9, so decided to sign up after new years eve. It was so easy to communicate with my matches, which were selected for me, through smiles and quick and light questions. I swapped emails with a couple of guys, and within 4 weeks of signing up I was emailing the love of my life. A year later, we are still together and planning our future together, I could not be happier!

  • eharmony worked for me

    After many a failed date/ relationship I joined eharmony over two years ago and was matched with Phil, after a few messages between us we met up (the first person I met off eharmony) and now we are engaged, brought a home together and trying for a baby. Without eharmony I would never have met Phil and I don't know what my life would be like without him.

  • perfect matching!

    I avoided online dating for years as it seemed scary but took the plunge finally after seeing the ads for eharmony and maybe I have just been lucky but the first person I dated was and still is perfect six months on. My life has changed so much since meeting Jonathan and we are both very happy and well suited. Well done and thank you eharmony.

  • We're getting married!

    I met my partner 3 years ago on eharmony and now we are getting married! I found the whole experience wonderful. I cannot praise the way eharmony matched us enough. I met my perfect match and we have been happily living together for 2 years and have booked our wedding for August 2016. Thank you eharmony.

    16-20 of 53 reviews

  • Absolutely Fantastic

    I bought this in 2014 and it took about six months but I found the most amazing person for me. We are getting married in June this year after a year and a bit together. They really match you very well me and my fiance are perfect for each other. It was also such a fun process. Thanks Eharmony.

  • We're buying a house...

    It's good that eharmony does most of the filtering for you, so you only look at people you might have a chance of starting a relationship with. People who aren't serious tend to go elsewhere; I met someone through eharmony and we're in the process of buying our first house together..

  • It worked for me!

    4 years ago I was lucky enough to meet my soulmate on eharmony. 2 years after our first date we got married and 5 months ago we had our first child to complete our little family. I couldn't recommend it enough. Stick with it Mr Right could be out there for you too.

  • A website that led to marriage

    I joined the site in June 2014 and within a month met the girl I was to marry. The way the website worked meant we shared similar interests and were a perfect match. In April 2016 we are getting married and I will be thanking the day I joined eharmony!!

  • Very easy to use.

    eharmony is great. I was really nervous at first but it was easy to use. The icebreakers and information on profiles helped begin conversations. I now live with my girlfriend who I met on eharmony and couldn't be happier.

    21-25 of 53 reviews

  • I found my husband on eharmony!

    After meeting some lovely people (minus the 'spark'!) on eharmony, I finally met the man of dreams on 9th August 2012. He proposed on 8th March 2014 and we became Husband and Wife on 29th May 2015. Thank you, eharmony!

  • First time internet dating - now married!

    I signed up to eharmony with no real expectations. I chose eharmony as it appeared to really attempt to match people, rather than relying on random hook ups. I met 5 men in 3 months and am now married to number 5!

  • I found love, eharmony genuinely works.

    On Saturday the 13th of February 2016 I married my partner, who I met on eharmony. From the introduction to communication and the all important first date. I can't thank eharmony enough for making me truly happy!

  • It works!

    I have met two lovely women on eharmony. Each relationship lasted a year. Sadly, distance was a problem in both cases, but I am still friends with both - testament to the matching success of eharmony.

  • Fun to use

    My husband and I met through eharmony. Both being very honest, it matched us up really well and after chatting through the site for a few months we had our first date. And never looked back!

    26-30 of 53 reviews

  • Genuinely well matched!

    When Per and I were matched on eharmony we were attracted by our similar interests, but its our shared values and similar outlook on life that led us on to something serious. For this I have to commend eharmony.... and forgive them for the pages and pages of profile questions!

    We knew fairly early on that we wanted to spend forever together and after that we did not mess around! We met via eharmony start of 2013, married end of 2014 and welcomed our first child end of 2015. In between all that we have had loads of fun holidays and bought a house. It has been an amazing, whirlwind few years.

    Our first date was a funny one. Per had two tickets to a screening of his favourite film, Lawrence of Arabia, at an art-house cinema. Normally, a four-hour-long war movie wouldn't be considered ideal first date material, but I reckon you can tell a lot about someone from their favourite film and it made me ponder that I'd met someone intelligent & thoughtful, which he turned out to be! Likewise the fact that I had actually enjoyed the film, let alone sat through it, hinted to him that we would be compatible.

  • User friendly with exciting features.

    Glad I signed up with Eharmony as I'd nearly given up finding soneone. The site was easy to use and I liked the questions feature as gave an insight into potential date's personalities.

  • Changed my life forever

    I joined hoping to find companionship, instead I found love. We've been together for 4 years and married for 6 months. I've never been happier and it's thanks to eharmony.

  • It worked!

    I joined eharmony because of its thorough set up of your profile and the questions asked. These resulted in some good matches and I have found my long term partner.

  • Found my husband to be!

    After signing up to eharmony i found my husband to be! After talking for over a month he came up to scotland to see me, moved in and year later we were engaged.

    31-35 of 53 reviews

  • eharmony are great found me my perfect match in every way weirdly spooky but amazing and 19 months later still together and going strong. Found my perfect love.

  • Really good met my husband

    Meet my husband on the site we have been married since Nov 2013 and we have a 1 year old little girl what more can I say give it a try What have got loose.

  • I found my fiancé

    I bought a years subscription and found an amazing man within 3 months. Four years later I am the happiest girl and engaged to my dream man.

  • Good experience

    Joined the site about a year ago, met few people but nothing stood out, found the true love the last week till my membership expired

  • Wooooo

    Was on Eharmony for a while then eventually met the love of my life. We are now in a happy relationship living together.

    36-40 of 53 reviews

  • Effective but expensive

    Well designed and effective website. Rather expensive but daily matches meant success within a 6 month subscription.

  • Perfect Partner

    Brilliant site, lots of in depth questions to find a perfect partner. I am happily married now thanks to eharmony.

  • Not great, hardly any matches. Well that was until I unsubscribed then there were significantly more, funny that!!

  • Fantastic Site!

    I paid for a subscription last year and the second person I met turned out to be my soul mate, thank you!

  • Got married!

    Met my wife here, what more can I say? The match was clear from the start thanks to the great profiling!

    41-45 of 53 reviews

  • That special woman

    Every woman that I have met on E-Harmony has been lovely and finally I have met a very special woman.

  • Getting it right

    My life turned around after only a few weeks on eharmony. The matching system used was extremely good.

  • Found love and happiness

    Met my partner on e-harmony 15 months ago and haven't looked back! Now happily living together.

  • Went on three dates.... Third was a keeper. 2.5 years later we are still strong. Thank you!

  • Happiness at last!

    I'm glad I joined eharmony as I did find the man of my dreams and we are very happy.

    46-50 of 53 reviews

  • I bought this 3 years ago found the rite lady and married her Thanks Eharmony

  • eharmony

    i found my soulmate on eharmony 2 yrs ago , we are now engaged to be married

  • Finding love

    I found my match on eharmony and still going strong after 1.5 year.

  • excellent dating service

    I found the perfect partner first time of trying thank you eharmony

  • Very disappointed

    I would be very unlikely to use e-harmony again

    51-53 of 53 reviews

  • Lost but now found

    So happy I tried just once more - found that special person.

  • easy to use

    I signed up a few months ago and it was so easy And safe.

  • Great website and we found love

    Signed up for 6 months and found the perfect match

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eharmony, The Brains Behind The Butterflies

Those butterflies of excited joy as you open the latest message from your new match, your first glimpse as you turn up for a date, a shared joke that only the two of you understand; these moments begin with eharmony.

We take the time to get to know you and discover what is really important in your life so that we can bring you really meaningful matches. With 35 years of experience in bringing people together, we constantly work to refine our matching process and find you a date which will last a lifetime.

Dating the eharmony Way

Searching for love shouldn't just be about the number of people you meet. Like most things in life, it's quality, not quantity that's important. Here at eharmony we believe there's a better approach to online dating than being bombarded with profiles and pictures. We think the dates our members go on should be amazing, memorable occasions. Join eharmony today and ensure your first meeting has that 'wow' moment.

eharmony Success Stories

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Why Online Dating Works

It fits into your busy lifestyle

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Higher Levels of Compatibility

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Our Compatibility Matching System © makes online dating easy. But this isn't about us - it's all about YOU. We concentrate on the things that really matter to you - like humour, intelligence and values - to ensure all your dates are the 'can't get you out of my mind' kind.

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