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Chances are you’re looking for it. We’re here to help you find it. We put our heart into making meaningful connections that lead to long-lasting relationships.

That’s why we’re fondly known as the brains behind the butterflies.
Keep reading to discover more…

Fact: eHarmony is responsible for the happiest relationships* – keep reading, you’ll see why.

how does it work?

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You plus eHarmony!

This is where we first meet. You start by taking our Relationship Questionnaire — look at it more like an exercise to get your heart really pumping. It is designed to help us get to know you at a deeper level. It’s the first step in finding love. It’s comprehensive, and at times revealing, but above all it’s a lot of fun and a breeze to get through.

be yourself

It's important to be honest when answering the questionnaire — it’s not a test, so relax and have fun! Don't worry if you're messy or still wear your lucky t-shirt with that hole in it — it makes us who we are. We ask you these questions so we can match you with people who are truly compatible with you. So jump in two feet first and enjoy. And to make things even easier, you can take the questionnaire anywhere, at home, at work or on the go.

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Look, a personality profile!

After taking the questionnaire we gain a deeper understanding of who you are and who matches best with you. You also get to learn a little about yourself with your personality profile. This can be a very valuable dating tool — after all, the more you know about yourself the more you will know what you need from your match. And what’s more, it’s yours for free!

what makes two people compatible?

As they say, this is where it happens... no not there, but in the matching labs! There’s a lot of science that goes into our matchmaking process. We dig deeper to get to know you better while identifying matches with the highest potential for a successful relationship.

This is what separates us from other sites. We search among millions of singles based on 29 Key Dimensions that are crucial for relationship success — we go further to understand who you are and who is most likely to give you butterflies.

it’s time to meet your matches!

DRUM ROLL PLEASE…YOUR MATCHES ARE READY

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Pick a membership that works best for you

Start talking with your matches

eHarmony delivers you a piping hot batch of matches, daily. Take your time, review their profiles and pick a membership that works best for you. Then start chatting with your matches — you’ll see how easy the process becomes with our Guided Communication options, including fun ice-breaker questions, to help you get to know your matches at your own pace.

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We make meaningful introductions — only compatible matches fill your inbox. That means the chances are high that you’re going to get along with them, at the very least. And once you start communicating, you’ll know if you get butterflies.

You’re never without a helping hand — guided communication helps you ease into getting to know your matches or you can skip that and go straight to direct communication with eH Mail. Then before you know it, you’ll be getting ready for that exciting first date.

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We take your privacy and security very seriously — so only your matches can see you and you must be a member to see photos. This is unlike other sites that allow anyone to randomly search for people and contact them. Not in our house.

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we're the brains behind the butterflies

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Join eHarmony today and let the fireworks begin, cue the symphony, and enjoy the excitement of finding someone who truly understands you. Finding a great relationship on eHarmony is within reach and we’re here to help you grab hold of it.

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