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Get who gets you, on eharmony

With eharmony, you’re more than just a profile picture. You’re more than a list of what you like and what you don’t. Our personality matching takes a deep dive into what makes you unique – then finds someone who just gets you.

How eharmony works

1. Discover
the real you

Take our Compatibility Quiz and find out what matters most to you in a relationship – your values, your needs and how you communicate. Your answers help us find the members you’re most likely to hit it off with.

2. See who’s
on eharmony

In your Discover list, you’ll find all the eharmony members who fit your search criteria. Each member you see will display a Compatibility Score based on how likely you are to hit it off. Your Discover list will be updated whenever new members join, so good you’ll never miss a chance to connect.

3. Connect with
someone new

Not sure where to start? We’ve made it easy: just find someone you like and make the first move with our quick and easy communication features. Send a message to get the conversation started.     

Experience eharmony

Find out how we explore the key dimensions of your personality and use those to help you meet people you’ll connect more authentically with.

What makes eharmony different? How we help you find real love

On eharmony, you’re more than just a profile picture. Here’s how our unique Compatibility Matching System takes a deep dive into your personality to help you find authentic connections:

  • Every new member takes our Compatibility Quiz and your answers tell us what you’re looking for in a partner based on your habits, interests and goals. We use your answers to generate a Compatibility Score with every other member
  • Quiz answers also create your unique Personality Profile, which helps you learn more about yourself and better understand what you’re looking for in a relationship

We believe love happens when two people connect based on what really matters. If you’re ready to find out, sign up today.

Check out our eharmony love stories

eharmony believes everyone deserves love – that’s why we’ve spent over 20 years bringing couples together in happy, authentic relationships. Over 2 million people have met and fallen in love on eharmony.

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“Ben and I just connect and see things the same way. eharmony put me with the perfect person.”

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“We can’t thank eharmony enough for matching us!”

John & Angela
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“I can honestly say that we never would have met if it hadn’t been for eharmony.”


Reasons to choose eharmony

In a world of fast swiping and surface-level dating profiles, eharmony is different. We want the real, authentic you. We want to bring out your personality and show all the things you love and everything you don’t. Then we’ll find you someone compatible. Someone who gets you.

The most authentic
dating app

Real people, genuine connections

The app most likely to lead to happy relationships

Your path to real love

The highest-quality users
of any dating app

Get someone who gets you

Over 2 million
have found love

Become the next today

Choose your membership

Love can happen at first sight but, let’s face it, for most of us it takes a little longer. That’s why our memberships are designed to give you all the time you need to get to know your matches. See which one fits you best and find out more about what eharmony costs or each membership type.

eharmony basic
Access to millions of relationship-minded singles
Unlimited matches
Use all messaging tools
Limited messaging
eharmony premium
Access to millions of relationship-minded singles
Unlimited matches
Use all messaging tools
Unlimited messaging
See all members’ photos
See who’s viewed you
Your unique Personality Profile
Change your search settings
Dedicated customer service

The most trusted dating app

eharmony’s No1 priority is providing a safe, welcoming and inclusive environment for users to connect and find authentic relationships. Our Trust & Safety team works round the clock to eliminate scammers, fake profiles and bad actors from our platforms.

*2022 Survey of 1,300 is a Respondents from the US, UK, Canada and Australia

We’re here for you

Got a question about eharmony or want to talk to us about your experience on the platform? Our Customer Care team is here for you, 24/7, 365 days a year. We also have an extensive FAQ section for anything you might want to know on your journey towards a new relationship.