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Meet mature singles in the UK with eHarmony

Whatever your age, eHarmony can help you meet mature singles in the UK

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Mature dating in the UK

There’s no reason why age should hold you back from finding love and happiness, which is why eHarmony is committed to helping over 40s and 50s find love later in life. Unlike other free dating sites, we don’t think that age is everything, and we specialise in helping people find meaningful relationships at every stage of life. With our unique Relationship Questionnaire, we take the time to really get to know you, so that we can introduce you to people who share more than just your age; our matches are based on 29 dimensions of compatibility, so you’ll be one-step closer to finding someone who you’ll really want to meet.

Why eHarmony isn’t like other free mature dating sites

At eHarmony, we know that finding like-minded mature singles in mid-life can be challenging, which is why we really take time to get to know you and find out what you’re looking for in a partner. Whether you’re looking for over 40s or over 50s, we’ll introduce you to other mature singles who share your core values – the really important things that great relationships are built on.

The Relationship Questionnaire does take some time to complete, but it covers all of the core values that we know will be important to you in the long-term. Passion, vitality, humour and curiosity are just a few of the 29 dimensions that we take into consideration, so you can be sure you’ll be matched with mature singles who share the same values as you when it really counts.

And if you’re pushed for time then, unlike other free mature dating sites, eHarmony doesn’t make you spend hours scrolling through profiles of potential partners. Instead, we’ll send you a carefully selected batch of matches every day, saving you time and preserving your privacy.

There’s plenty of choice too; we’ve welcomed thousands of singles in their 40s, 50s and over who are looking for love online with eHarmony – they’re based across the UK and the list is growing every day! Whether you’re divorced, widowed or a single parent looking for love, friendship or companionship, we’ll help you find the best fit for you.

The eHarmony experience for mature singles

So, you’ve completed your Relationship Questionnaire, updated your profile and are keen to start meeting your matches – what next? Well, eHarmony offers a whole host of ways for you to connect with the mature singles that catch your eye. Our Guided Communication tool is a great way to break the ice; you can kick-start a flirtation by sending a smile or dive straight in and send five questions that’ll help you find out whether they’re someone you’d like to know better.

Once you’ve got things started, you can move on to the secure eHarmony Mail system. It’s completely private and you don’t have to share any personal details; just start messaging, safe in the knowledge that everything is between just you and your match.

Are you new to online dating?

Whether you’ve never tried online dating or been offline for a while, be sure to check out our safety tips; that way you can just focus on getting back on the mature dating scene and enjoying the experience. And if your nerves are getting to you, then check out our Dating Advice site; it’s got all the tips you’ll need to feel confident when meeting fellow mature singles, from first date etiquette guides to hints and tips for improving your profile.

So, what are you waiting for? Sign up to eHarmony today and you can start meeting great mature singles who are truly suited to you.

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eHarmony can help mature daters find love

eHarmony is a relationship website for those seeking love and long-term attachments. When you become an eHarmony member, you know exactly what to expect: you’ll be matched with other singles with whom you’re deeply compatible.

Years of scientific research have gone into the development of our Compatibility Matching System. A free online personality test is taken by every new member, and the results are used to create a unique profile that reveals the aspects of your personality that will determine the success of your relationships. The personality profiles are used to match members based on deep levels of compatibility.

This means that by the time you actually meet up with someone you know you’ll get along and have compatible personalities. If the spark’s there, you won’t waste time finding out they’re not for you. And if there’s no spark, there are plenty more compatible singles waiting to meet you.

It’s completely free to take the personality quiz – you can take it right now and begin to receive details of your matches straight to your email inbox. It’s free to review your matches, and you can do so without having to upload a photo or share any contact details. So you can check out your matches online discreetly before deciding whether you want to take it any further.


Inspiration for mature dating

But what happens when you find a compatible match you’d like to know better? Here are a few suggestions of places to go for the first few dates of your new romance:


The first date

A good first date during the daytime is a trip to an art gallery or a museum. In the evening, if you want to do something more interesting than just go to a restaurant, you could pick up tickets to a play, a concert, or a jazz club. If you and your date live in the countryside, or if you just prefer to meet up outdoors, then there’s nothing more pleasant and romantic than a walk.


More dating ideas

Other good senior dating options include cafes, especially ones with any kind of local importance or history, and any local markets or exhibitions at old halls. Finding a shared interest can be another great way to get to know each other, and there are endless possibilities – from pottery classes to cooking courses. More ideas for outdoor dates include a day out boating and perhaps a day at the golf course if you’re feeling sporty.

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